First lets talk about what is a toilet before you decide whether you are one or not. The human body is an amazing work of engineering most would agree. It is designed to take in and discharge things like food, liquids, oxygen etc. But the human body also takes in and discards other things like trauma, mistreatment, abuse, education,information,observations etc that enters the mind. So when all these things are taken in by the human mind and body they are systematically assessed to determine the things that are nutritious or useful for the body and or the mind. Once these intakes are assessed and the useful and nutritious things are abstracted the mind and the body will discharge those things that are not useful or nutritious. So when an human mind and body needs to release all the things that were not useful,nutritious or whats left after abstraction it must find a place to relieve themselves. Also unless and until the refuse is discharged from the body or mind it will be uncomfortable and unhealthy even to the point of death. So is ANYONE( INCLUDING LOVE ONES) dumping nonconstructive conversations or advice,verbal or physical abuse,trauma or mistreatment,gossip or nonconstructive information on you? YOU ARE BEING USED AS A TOILET